Are You Finally Ready to Break Through The Brick Wall of Limiting Beliefs, Procrastination, and Feeling Stuck?
Breakthrough Momentum Mentoring
A step-by-step system designed to help you make massive breakthroughs and permanently change your life in the next 90 days.
I know what it feels like to be totally stuck.
Either you know exactly what to do with your life but you just can’t bring yourself to do it, or you have this vague sense that something is off and it nags at you in the back of your mind every single day.
On the one hand, you have a bunch of doubts and limiting beliefs that keep you from taking action, or you get right to the point where you’re going to make your big move, and procrastination sets in once again leaving you right where you started.
But on the other hand, you also have this deep level of confidence in the person you could become. You know deep in your bones that if you just put the puzzle pieces together and got some damn momentum, you could transform into that person you’ve always wanted to be.
That’s why daydreams are so powerful. Not because they’re fantasies, but because you know yourself well enough to know that vivid picture could be reality. If you didn’t think it were possible, you wouldn’t dream at all.
You’re probably in the position I was a few years ago. You know you have all the potential in the world but also, feeling it slip through your fingers every day, you decide to stay the same.
This mismatch between who you are right now and who you’re supposed to be, the version of you that was put on this earth to become, creates a bunch of anxieties.
For some, it’s the curse of having a pretty good life. You checked off the boxes -- the nice comfy gig, the house in the suburbs, a pristine LinkedIn profile -- but it still feels empty and hollow because you’re not doing the thing you’re meant to do.
For others, you’re in the situation I was in -- down, out, lost, and wondering how you could’ve possibly fallen so well below your potential.
Before I tell you my story, I want you to pause and think about what I’m about to say next.
Whether or not you decide working with me is a good idea, for your own sake, I want to pause and think about what I’m going to tell you. If nothing else, what you’re about to read will force you to put your life into perspective.
What Has A Lack Of Momentum Toward A Real Mission In Your Life Cost You?
How many little peculiar anxieties has it created? You know, the little things that bug you that add up to this sense of dread you try to push to the back of your mind every day of your life.
How much time has it cost you?
Think of how much time you’ve spent doing all the things you didn’t want to do vs the amount of time you’ve spent living the way you want to live.
Think about all the things you’ve wanted to do but never did. All the risks you avoided out of fear.
All the little moments where instead of standing tall and just going for it, you let doubt creep in a chip a little piece of your soul away. Think of how many times this has happened.
Ultimately, understand that if you haven’t gone on a real mission and did the things that mattered most to you, you’ve decided to take a miracle of an opportunity that is life and just let large chunks of it go to waste.
I’m not trying to be harsh or mean. I’m just communicating to you all the ways I’ve felt before. There was a point in my life where everything I’m saying to you hit me like a brick.
It hit me so hard that after tons of failed attempts to change my life, I found a way to shift the trajectory of my future forever.
My Breakthrough Moment and The Path to Permanent Change
When you look at my life now -- a six-figure business doing what I love, three best selling books, speaking on stage in front of thousands, doing whatever I please every day of my life -- it’s hard to believe where I came from or that I even managed to make it here.
But I did.
A few years ago, I was lost, totally stuck in life, and frustrated that I was living well below my potential.
I promise, if you think you struggle with motivation, feel lost, or think your situation can’t change, my story can match it if not beat it.
I dropped out of college with a semester left to go. At the time, I worked at an electronics company as a factory line worker for $10 an hr, 12 hours a day, six days a week.
There was no better way to describe how I felt than…depressed.
To cope, I’d smoke as much weed as humanly possible to block out the sinking feeling of wasting my life.
I was tens of thousands of dollars in debt with no degree or career to show for it. I’d set myself up for a life that I saw my co-workers living.
I’d just go to work for barely any money, doing mind-numbingly repetitive tasks, for decades on end, then I’d just die.
When you’ve dug a deep hole for yourself you can either admit what happened and resolve to change it or keep letting life slip away and try to cope with it by rationalizing your situation or distracting yourself.
I accepted it. I sat with my present reality. As much as I would’ve liked to have gone back and changed the past I knew it was impossible.
I knew that I could either choose to repeat the same patterns that got me stuck in the first place or I could finally make a decision to do something about it.
I had dreams. They were vague at the time. But I knew I wanted to be successful somehow. I wanted to do something I enjoyed for a living.
I wanted to wake up excited about life instead of dreading the day to come. I wanted to feel like I was the best version of myself.
I’ve always been curious about the process of self-actualization. How do you become the person you’re supposed to become? For whatever reason, I got it in my head that now was the time for me to really figure things out.
So I went searching for answers. I got on YouTube and started watching videos about self-improvement and personal development.
Eventually, I landed on a teacher I really enjoyed and started devouring all of his content. He kept talking about a concept that turned his entire life around as well as the lives of many others.
He talked about the life-changing power of finding mentors.
Mentors help you fill the gaps in your knowledge because they’ve been through what you’re trying to do already. They can push you to get better and help you stay accountable.
Sometimes they just know how to say the right thing that hits you in the right way even if you feel like you’ve heard it all before.
This teacher had a program available, an online mentoring program. There were videos to watch and he’d also do live classes where he explained the topics in-depth, provided extra motivation, and answered questions.
At first, I scoffed at the idea of paying someone to teach me how to live life.
Couldn’t I just figure it out on my own? Wasn’t the free information enough? Should I really pay some random guy on the internet to guide me?
I was dead broke at the time, too. The program wasn’t super expensive, but it was a lot of money to me. I guess I just figured “What else do I have to lose?”
I knew that some random online course was a long shot, but at that point, a long shot seemed to be my only option.
I told myself that the past times where I tried and failed didn’t matter and that joining this program was going to be a symbolic move that I was going to rest my future on.
It just felt like I was serious this time and I just had this do-or-die mentality.
The program was a couple of months long. Most people didn’t even finish it. But I did. I got a new job as a manager of a video store. I didn’t have a car at the time, so I had to walk two miles to the bank to drop off deposits after my shift.
I listened to those lessons on those walks over and over and over again. I seared them into my mind with this level of willpower I’d never felt before.
This program finally helped me get what I’d been missing my whole life.
I got momentum.
By the time I was done with the program, I hadn’t reached all of my dreams, but I’d made huge progress. I finally picked up writing, which is something I always knew I wanted to do.
I started sharing the things I was thinking and feeling with other people and created a buzz. I planted the seeds to everything I’ve accomplished so far.
After I finished the program, I literally never looked back. It worked as promised and I had enough momentum to make permanent changes to my mindset, motivation level, habits, discipline, all of it.
Even if you’ve felt stuck in your life for a long time, all you need is a bit of momentum to help you break out of that feeling. Eventually, you can reach a breakthrough point in your life that changes things forever.
At first, I wrote for some small blogs and eventually I submitted my work to a large publication. One of the editors at the site took a liking to my work and started working with me to improve my articles.
I had another mentor.
He helped me refine my work, gave me tips and strategies for building a writing career, and most importantly he was just supportive and helped me stay accountable.
Working with someone who knew what they were doing shortened my learning curve and probably shaved years off of my journey from newbie writer to successful author.
So, in just a few short months, I went from being dead broke, depressed, and working a job I hated to having massive breakthroughs in my mindset as well as habits and strategies to build a brand new life.
I found something I loved to do so much I became obsessed with it. All the clutter in my mind was gone. I knew what to do, how to do it, and I had a strong enough ‘why’ to see things all the way through.
I rode that obsession to building my own little empire. I wake up and do exactly what I want to do everyday. It’s not an exaggeration to say that going through that program helped me save my life.
Now I’m on a mission to help save others.
Join Now and Get Ready For Your Breakthrough
“Ayodeji is a brilliant teacher. Initially, I was hesitant to pay for his services because coming from a low-income country it was a huge sum of money to spend. Guess what? I gained it back within three months. He's incredibly humble and during our call, he even helped me understand my pain points and gave me actionable advice that helped me elevate my writing big time.
That writing led to making money, quitting my job, and creating multiple income streams - in 9 months. Last year, I earned 145% more than my corporate salary. My work gave me a 5% hike whereas I gave myself a much larger one. It all started from my conversation with him. If you want to elevate your life (and there's just one chance that you get at living), he is your man.”
Before both paying for and stumbling upon mentors to help me change my life, I’d tried a few other strategies that didn’t work well at all. You’ve probably tried some of these yourself.
Strategy # 1 - Reading Self-Help Books Alone
I love self-help books. I write them. But, often, they’re not enough on their own. How many times have you read a self-help book that gets you all fired up, only to find that motivation fades shortly after?
The problem isn’t the information itself. Often, you end up doing nothing with the information because there’s no one there to keep you accountable.
Imagine if you had access to the authors of these books and they checked in with you every week for a few months.
Think the information would sink in a bit deeper and you’d have a better shot at changing because they were right with you every step of the way?
Strategy # 2 - Consuming Free Content on the Internet
“Can’t you just find all of this information online for free?”
Absolutely. You sure can. You probably have sought this information out for free online. Be honest with yourself. How well has it worked out for you?
To this day, I spend money on programs and work with coaches because I don’t like wasting time piecing everything together on my own.
I also love the accountability that comes with putting my money where my mouth is. This isn’t some marketing psychological trick to convince you to ‘invest yourself.’ It’s just what worked for me.
Strategy # 3 - Just Trying Harder
How many times have you tried trying harder? You keep telling yourself you’re finally going to put your foot down and make it happen, but always end up falling short.
Having people in my corner early on in my self-improvement journey made me feel like I wasn’t alone. These mentors were people I both looked up to.
I wanted to live up to their expectations. Having someone communicate to you in a way that shows they actually have faith in you can mean a world of difference.
It was a lot easier to try when I stopped guessing. I just listened to the lessons and did what they said.
Imagine Your Breakthrough Momentum 90 Days From Now…
This program is designed to give you the momentum you desperately need to change your life.
You won’t have a million dollars in the bank and every single aspect of your life figured out by the end of the program.
It’s not going to cure every single problem you have and the full transformation you need to make will take longer than 90 days.
But, like me, you can get that ‘escape velocity’ that pushes you to make long-term progress.
You’ll have clarity, direction, and focus. I’ve designed the program so that you leave no stone unturned and have a crystallized vision for what steps you need to take to change your life and in what order.
Instead of just thinking about doing ‘that thing’ you’ll have spent the last three months actively building your dream.
Don’t even think about these crazy results just yet. Just imagine finally feeling like you’re moving forward in a sincere way.
You’ll have your website up and write those blog posts you’ve always dreamed about sharing with the world.
You’ll have your business idea mapped out and even have sales rolling in.
You’ll be hitting the gym daily and building a healthy body you love to see in the mirror.
Or you might just end up realizing you have some simple and modest goals that mean a lot to you, accept who you really are, and settle into a life where you’re exploring things deeper on a spiritual level.
Whatever the specifics are for you, the program is designed to have you actively on the path to building the life you want. Not the one you think you should want or the one you want because you think it’ll impress other people.
I want to help you live the type of life where you look in the mirror and nothing seems wrong anymore.
Not because of any particular success or failure, but because you know you’re taking the type of action that makes both of them irrelevant.
It’s designed to help you break through that wall of complacency, stop feeling stuck, and start executing.
So don’t just imagine glitz and glamor (that’s cool if it’s part of your plan), imagine the serenity of motion.
Imagine living a life where you live life in a more fluid and seamless way because your thoughts, words, and actions are all aligned.
A lot of people have asked me over the years if I do “life coaching” or if I’d be their mentor.
I resisted the idea for a long time because I didn’t feel like I could come up with the perfect answers. My sense of duty in what I do means I can’t create something unless I really believe in it.
Now, I’ve decided to go all-in on seeing what we can do together. I’m not the type to make guarantees. But I will say that this is the best thing I’ve ever put together in my entire life.
I’m taking the past seven years I’ve spent learning how to become the best version of yourself and packing as much of it into a 90 day program that pushes you but isn’t totally overwhelming either.
If you decide to join, I’m going to throw all of my weight into working with you to get the most out of this life. It’s not like I’m just going to be telling you what to do. We’re going to be in the trenches together at the same time.
You’re here because you enjoy what I write. This program is me taking all that knowledge and using it to guide you. You’ll also be working with other students so you can help each other be accountable.
I’m trying to get us together to create the feeling that we’re in this small army -- battling together to be ourselves in a world that tries to make us pretty much anything other than what we actually want to be.
By the end of the program, you’ll have a clear road map to a better future, you’ll actively be working toward it, and you’ll have a bunch of new like-minded friends you can work with to stay the course. I’m keeping the group open for the lifetime of the program and it’s only going to grow.
I can’t fix your entire life in 90 days, but I can give you the hardest push you’ve ever felt in your life, which is exactly what this program is designed to do.
Introducing Breakthrough Momentum Mentoring
Breakthrough Momentum Mentoring is a 90-day interactive online program with group coaching. I designed it to combine the best of both worlds when it comes to online education.
Most programs either:
- Have solid information but no accountability
- A ton of accountability (1 on 1) with a really high price tag
- Fail to deliver quality information or support
So we’ll be working together as a team by going through weekly videos lessons as well as having a group call every single week to keep each other focused.
I wanted to give you the opportunity to have access to me without needing to have me be your one on one personal coach to the tune of thousands of dollars a month.
So many readers have sent me emails wanting to ‘pick my brain’ and ask me questions about how to change their lives.
Given the time it would take to give full replies at the cost of other priorities I needed to take care of, I just couldn’t give people the answers they needed.
I created this program with the vision that I could help meet all of your needs at the same time.
I’m really really good at breaking things down in real-time and during the Q&A portions of the calls, I’ll be there to give you thorough answers on the spot.
I call it ‘spot coaching.’
Also, seeing me fill in the gaps for other students on the calls will probably fill some gaps for you in the process.
If you’ve read my work for a while, you know I have a unique ability to get inside your head and pinpoint exactly the way you feel, even if you couldn’t quite articulate it yourself.
Well, imagine what I’d be able to do for you in real life.
Readers have also described my work as hard-hitting and brutally honest yet caring and compassionate at the same time.
I’m the same way when I coach others in real life. I’ve done it successfully in other areas like teaching students to become writers.
Most of the time I end up doing more life coaching than writing coaching because, at the end of the day, it’s all life coaching.
It’s going to take some effort and dedication on your part. I can’t make you do the lessons or attend the calls (recorded versions available), or finish the weekly exercises and challenges.
Yes, you’re going to have to carve out a bit of time if you want to have a breakthrough. Yes, some of this will involve doing work alone.
“You can bring a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink it.”
Well, I can lead you all the way up to the nearest microscopic measurement available to mankind and get you directly in front of the ‘water.’
The conviction I have in describing this program will pour right into you if you decide to work with me.
Let’s break down what you get when you join
Breakthrough Momentum Mentoring
12 Week Online Course
The core of this program will be an online course with 12 different lessons that walk you through exactly what you need to do to find a life path that provides consistency and excitement as well as tackle some of the challenges you’ll come across along the way.
Each week you’ll watch a lesson (10-30 mins in length). You’ll have exercises to work on based on those lessons. We’ll also have a weekly call to review the lesson with Q&A to make sure you know how to keep moving forward successfully.
Lessons will cover a variety of topics including:
- Rewiring your brain to eliminate distractions and get rid of procrastination
- Creating an environment that makes it 10X easier to follow through with your goals
- How to figure out who you are, what you want, and the things you really value to create ‘personal code’ that guides all of your actions
- A deep-dive analysis of your talents and strengths
- Turning motivation into discipline and habits
- Overcoming/letting go of the past
- Overcoming limiting beliefs and self-doubt
- How to structure your days
- Proper goal setting and creating systems that make it much easier to achieve those goals
- Setting boundaries with other people, learning to say ‘no, and being more assertive
- Developing self-confidence that lasts
- Mastering skills that will improve your life
- Psychological techniques you can use to keep yourself accountable
- Switching careers/starting a side hustle or online business
Each lesson will be recorded and released at the beginning of each week.
Weekly Challenges
The weekly challenges are designed to help you take action.
Instead of just passively consuming the information you’re learning, you’re going to use these challenges to test out these strategies in the real world.
For example, if we’re working on setting boundaries your challenge might be to practice saying ‘no’ to anything you don’t really want to do.
Another week you might go through a challenge where you aim to follow your new routine for 7 days straight.
I’m not going to give you the real challenge ideas upfront because I want them to be, you know, challenging.
These challenges will teach you how to think on your feet, adapt, and take rapid action in real-time -- skills that you need to master if you want to complete your missions.
Remember, this is the 90-day window where you’re putting your foot down and finally making those changes you’ve been desperately needing to make.
These challenges give you the nudge you need to flip the switch from someone who just consumes information to someone who uses it to create something special in the real world.
Weekly Group Coaching Calls
These coaching calls are where you’ll get direct access to me. You’ll be on the calls with other students, but I will make sure to address and answer all of your questions on the calls.
During each call, we will review the week’s lesson, I’ll talk about ways to make sure the strategies stick, and I’ll be there to keep your head straight if you feel stuck or lost.
This is where ‘spot coaching’ comes in. Spot coaching happens when a student describes a specific problem they’re having and I coach them in real-time in front of the group.
Often, this helps other students who may have been struggling and it gives the student in question the clarity and focus they need to follow through.
These calls will be recorded for those who are unable to attend live and there will also be two separate call times per week to ensure we can reach as many students as possible and provide a more comfortable setting with fewer students per class.
Private Slack Community
Slack is a tool that helps members of groups communicate with one another. In this private slack community, you’ll be able to talk with other students to keep each other accountable.
You may even meet someone who becomes a true friend or business partner down the road. Your network is one of your most valuable assets.
This community seeks to be a network where we will continue to grow over time and share insights and strategies with one another.
You’ll be able to share insights and ‘aha’ moments with other students, post results from the challenges, and give students who need an extra nudge some reassuring words or receive them if you’re in need.
Here’s a quick recap of everything you get in the program:
- 12 weekly online lessons designed to help you change your life
- Weekly challenges to help you solidify the information in the real world
- Weekly coaching calls for support, assistance, and guidance directly from me
- Private slack community for networking, support, and accountability
How Much Does it Cost?
Special Bonuses (Limited Time Only)
If the pot weren’t already sweet enough, I’ve decided to make it an undeniably good deal. If you’re one of the first 100 people to join the program, you’ll get access to two bonus live masterclasses where I’ll be covering:
- A deep dive masterclass on starting an online business: I’ll give a solid overview of this in the 12-week program itself, but this bonus master class that happens at the end of the course will go deep on all things business, like figuring out what people want to buy, getting traffic and eyeballs on your products and services and turning them into leads, choosing the right business model, and understand the psychology of marketing and sales.
- A deep dive masterclass on switching careers: For those of you who don’t want to start a business and want to switch careers, we’ll go deep into changing what you do for a living including topics like deciding whether or not you need to get a degree, how to find dream jobs that match your interests, interview techniques, salary negotiation, and gaining the confidence to get the role and compensation you deserve.
These masterclasses will be so good that I will sell them in the future for a pretty penny. But you get to have them both for free just for being a founding member of Breakthrough Momentum Mentoring.
The Most Ridiculously Lopsided Money-Back Guarantee Ever Created
I can’t have any bad karma on my conscience. Not only that, but I genuinely don’t want your money if the program isn’t a massive success for you.
A lot of sleazy marketers will make you jump through a bunch of hoops to get your money back or they’ll create a time window for the refund that’s long enough to get you to buy but short enough for them to have a chance to capture your funds without you noticing.
I’m going all the way against the grain.
Here’s my guarantee. You can take the whole program. If 90 days later you decide things didn’t work out for you, you can have your money back.
Simple.
Will some people abuse this? Honestly, I highly doubt it. My readers are good and honest people so I want to give them a sincere and honest shot at making this work. If it doesn’t, no harm no foul.
Personally, I think I’m criminally undercharging for this. The price will go up in the future and it’s not a matter of ‘if’ but ‘how much.’
Even so, I know $297 total is still a stretch for some of you. If that’s the case, never put your finances at any real risk. But, if you can swing it and you’re a little hesitant, just know that the program itself is quite literally risk-free.
It’s about as no-brainer of an offer as I can make.
Read Through This List of People Who Think I’m Really, Really, Really Awesome and Wonderful
Sean Kernan
Top Medium Writer with 65,000 followers
“What's unique about Ayo is his hyper-focus and keen understanding of the relationship between the present and the future. He doesn't spew mumbo-jumbo and cookie-cutter life quotes.
He drills down deep and flips between these two competing realities, drawing lines that stitch the present moment with your ideal future, pulling you in closer in each pass.
He is experienced, reflective, and well-read. His writing hits hard with brutal honesty, humor, and wit. He is a beneficiary of his convictions, rather than a victim of them.
I've learned many things from Ayo, but perhaps the most formative and overarching lesson is that much of the despair and emotional darkness we feel is the very thing that can help us escape. Achieving our ideal life begins with our interpretation of this present moment.
You can trust Ayo to lead you.”
Tim Denning
Top Medium writer with 226,000 followers
“Ayo is one of my favorite writers on the internet. I love what he does because he's experienced the struggles most people face. He's experienced a few hard life challenges most people haven't too. To go from broke, divorced, from a rough neighborhood, working in a factory, angry, lazy, to inspiring millions of people by writing online is a huge deal.
Ayo's approach taught me to focus on systems and to cultivate motivation on the hard days more so than the easy days.
If you're going to learn how to master your life from anyone, Ayo is a phenomenal choice. It'll be hard to do, but you'll never be the same again. Choose hard.”
Sinem Gunel
Top Medium writer with 48,000 followers
“I was lucky to discover Ayo’s work when I first started to write online. His advice helped me stay inspired and focused on my long-term goals. Ayo is one of the few people who don’t sugarcoat reality - he’s brutally honest and gets straight to the point to ensure you actually do what you need to do in order to achieve your goals and become a better version of yourself. Most people I know try to be everybody’s darling so they’re afraid to be honest - Ayo does the contrary. He’ll bring out the best in you without the nonsense and the blah-blah. His advice is harsh, actionable, and life-changing."
Niklas Goke
Top Medium writer with 86,000 followers
“Whatever "it" is, Ayo has it. He's one of the most relentlessly optimistic-yet-realistic people I've ever met – and that makes for one hell of a combination in both inspiring others while kicking their butts in gear. Ayo won't let you slack, but he also won't stop supporting you. He asks thoughtful questions at the right time and tells it to you straight when necessary. I cannot recommend working with him enough.”
Lorreen Beempong
Former student
“Thank you so much for the Real Help course. I truly believe that the course has taught me so much about myself. Some of it I knew and did not want to admit to myself and there are some things I uncovered about myself.
I always felt the need to be validated from people I knew I wouldn’t get validation from. I was down on myself all the time. I was always self critical and I had plans to kill myself. I felt like such a loser. I then came across either your Instagram or your medium account and I was so happy to read and hear content that was comforting. I bought your book later than when the course started but I was determined to finish the book. I went through the entire course.
I decided to stand up and not let life beat me down. I am so glad I [went through the program] because I re-discovered some parts of myself. I took the advice of the personality tests and purchased and completed my first edx course. I journal and decompress often. I joined an emotional intelligence group. I started rebuilding a savings account. I am working with a counselor. I recently enrolled in a Teaching English as a Foreign Language program so that one day I can teach English online or maybe teach in a foreign country. You might have saved my life and given me hope again.”
Barbara Vanieris
Former student
“I cannot thank you enough for your straightforward and clear approach to helping and motivating others. You stand out from the crowd, and I know as I've been a searcher online for a couple of years now. I enrolled in your course and bought your new book straight away.
It felt like you were a personal friend. You spoke directly to my mind during this period of introspection and internal reflection. Finally my procrastination has been broken through like a flood breaking through the white stone walls of my previously intransigent psyche. The no BS message has finally penetrated, so you can definitely move my name over to the patient and persistent list.”
Frequently Asked Questions
If you’re still on the fence about whether or not Breakthrough Momentum Mentoring is right for you, take a look at these frequently asked questions.
Will The Slack Group Be Available After the Program Is Done?
What Is The Time Commitment? Can I Do This on a Busy Schedule?
What If I Canβt Attend the Live Coaching Calls? Will They be Recorded?
How Will The Program Be Laid Out?
Does This Program Work For Anyone at Any Age?
Quick Reminder of Everything You Get With Breakthrough Momentum Mentoring
- 12 weekly online lessons designed to help you change your life.
- Weekly challenges to help you solidify the information in the real world.
- Weekly coaching calls for support, assistance, and guidance directly from me.
- Private slack community for networking, support, and accountability.
- Two bonus deep-dive masterclasses covering online business and switching careers.
- A no-questions-asked money-back guarantee even after you’ve taken the program.
I’ve laid it all out. It’s yours for the taking. I’d love to have you join me.